This means war!!

Some people just don't know when to quit.  I don't see anything wrong with self-improvement or trying to learn more.  Though, 1 person continues to take simple statements and blow them completely out of proportion and turn them into something they are not.  I'm fed up and so now I am fighting back.  This person has officially warn out their welcome.  I am officially ensuring that they never set foot through our door ever again!! I'm done!! I've had enough!! Over a year of feeling like I can't do anything right, of feeling guilty for choices I'm making as a parent, for being judged by this person, and for pretending like the words they say don't bother me despite crying in my hubby's arms for hours upon leaving their house.  Done!! I'm through!! This person does not see what goes on in this house, they have no clue as to what Wilson and I are like as a couple.  We do fight.  We disagree.  We are happy.  And we both can always make improvements.  Why must a simple statement made by my husband require something that has yet again caused both Wilson and me to get angry.  I knew he was annoyed from the look on his face.  I saw the anger building.  He told me and then the anger festered within me.  They do that without thinking I'm sure!! filtering is not something they do best and a lot of times it's at the cost of someone else's hurt feeling such as tonight!! It doesn't help their cause by  any means!! They don't seem to be aware that those kinds of "coming to the defense" type of statements (As I'm very sure that's what they assumed they were doing) can cause for harm!! Think before you post something crude on someone else's wall!! Ask the person making the statement if there was an underlying reason for the wall post before you go and make some dumb comment.  There might not have been anything at all behind it (which there wasn't) Don't go making assumptions before getting the whole story!! Well, this person crossed yet another line and they have now officially lost all rights to the kids as well as any type of place in this home!! I'm done!!